There are many times in our lives when we come to a crossroads.
Decisions must be made about which road we take.
Sometimes we find out right away that the road we chose was the wrong one. But, maybe, in the long run it will turn out to be the right one. We can't know that when we make our choice. We make our choice on instinct. When we realize that the choice we chose has hurt another, we are devastated.
We must ask for forgiveness from the offended and ask God to give us the patience to wait for that forgivness.
Bear with each other and forgive whatever grievances you may have against one another. Forgive as the Lord forgave you. - Colossians 3:13